May 10, 2009
By MARISSA AMONI For The Beacon News
There is something special about Mickey Hogan. It could
be her cheerful presence or her contagious laugh. Her kids
will tell you that she makes a mean turkey tetrazzini and
holds her own in a game of touch football.
And their smiles say much more.
Hogan, 42, is a family teacher at Mooseheart Child City
and School on Route 31 north of North Aurora. She cares
for the boys who live at the Ontario residence -- it's
a full-time job and she lives at the residence.
Most mothers will tell you it's tough to be a mom to one
child. Hogan does all the hard work of a loving mother,
cooking and cleaning and nurturing, but multiplied by 10,
five days (and nights) a week.
"She goes above and beyond to see that these boys are
respected and cared for," said Mooseheart Executive Director
Scott Hart. "Family teachers are really surrogate parents
to the kids."
It's all in a day's work to Hogan, who enjoys every minute
of being a mother figure to the boys who range in age from
7 to 12.
Nine-year-old Joey says Hogan is like a good friend.
"She's fair and she lets us do stuff, like bring our money
when we go shopping," the youngster said.
Joey moved to Mooseheart two years
ago from St. Charles. "My
mom couldn't take care of me," he said.
Changing roles
Hogan started working at Mooseheart six years ago. Previously,
she was the executive director for a patient advocate organization
in Chicago, but her duties changed and she was no longer
happy in the position. She explored a career change and was
drawn to teaching -- a vocation that was meant for her, according
to a personality test she took while at DePaul University.
Without a teaching certificate, though, Hogan's options
in the teaching profession were limited.
When she came upon the position
at Mooseheart, Hogan, who is from the Aurora and Naperville
areas, thought it was still an orphanage. She would learn
that the "Child
City" is a residential living facility with nearly 30 residences.
"For whatever reason, the (child's) guardian is unable
to take care of them," Hogan said of the children in
Mooseheart's care. It could be financial or health reasons. "A
lot of times (Mooseheart) might be a safer environment
from where they are coming from," she said.
A stable environment
When Hogan was hired at Mooseheart, she received three weeks
of training on the "model of care" that the family teachers
provide the child residents.
"Relationship development is very important. It can be
hard for the kids," Hogan said.
Children may not understand why they are living at Mooseheart,
and it is important to provide a stable, structured group
environment for them, she said.
"The goal is to teach the social skills they'll need to
be successful in life," Hogan said.
But the smaller, daily goals are equally important, like
getting ready for school in the morning, doing chores and
homework, and just being a kid.
Living at Mooseheart took getting used to at first.
"It is definitely a lifestyle that you have to embrace
-- all parts of it," she said.
As the cornerstone of the Ontario residence, she doesn't
see any changes in the foreseeable future.
"I like being with the boys. Even on my days off, I'll
see how their day has been," she said.
Hogan has helped to raise about 20 boys since being at
Mooseheart. She's been with 9-year-old Jacob the longest.
"I like being taken care of and getting fed. We get treated
right. Mickey takes care of us," Jacob said.
He has been at Mooseheart for six years. He says he doesn't
know the whole story of why he is there.
"Jacob was really struggling. We were working with him
and helping him. Knowing that I helped him work through
the struggles is very rewarding," Hogan said.
As Hogan sits at the head of the long, rectangular dining
room/work table, it is clear that the boys find comfort in
her presence. They congregate around her with pictures they've
drawn or with questions on their homework.
"She's nice. She cooks and plays with us and finds activities
for us," said 8-year-old Styles.
Before coming to Mooseheart, Styles traveled to at least
a half-dozen states to stay with various relatives. His
brother, Skylar, 7, also lives in the Ontario residence.
On Sundays, Hogan instructs a Catechism class for some
of the boys.
"She will take the time and push herself to show them
that they are important and their life matters," Hart said. "She
always has a smile on her face and her boys are always
happy."
"It is very rewarding," Hogan said. "It
is not what I expected at all."
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